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Aug 17, 2022

This week we sat down once again with Kate Sloan to discuss her new book, 200 Words to Help You Talk About Sexuality & Gender. We discuss language surrounding gender & sexuality, nuances in sexual identities, and how all of this intersects with kink & BDSM. Our hosts also open up a bit about their recent gender realizations, and Kate answers questions about terms for nonbinary significant others, coming out to your parents, gatekeeping, and more. 

Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you can also find Kate on episodes 281, 176, and 074.

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