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Aug 3, 2022

This week we sat down with Mortician Barbie, a kinky embalmer, to talk about negotiating about death within kink dynamics. While she’s not interested in kinks related to death, planning for death is a large part of negotiations with her partner, and she and her partner have committed to staying monogamous with each other even after the other has passed. We discussed what that looks like for them, as well as contracts in D/s and how you can show dominance through service. 

Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you’d probably like episodes 252, 189, and 136.

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