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May 25, 2022

This week we sat down with HappyApple to talk about connections between play and kink. He is an expert on children’s play who has noticed a lot of parallels between his studies and BDSM play, since playing with others as a child is how we first learn consent, trust, and communication. We discussed the importance of play in leading a healthy life and how this can be accomplished through kink & BDSM. We also dive into how the films Choir Boys and Tommy made him into the pervert he is today!

Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you’d probably like our episode with Leigh Cowart about their book Hurts So Good.

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