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May 12, 2021

This week’s episode starts off with a conversation between Dick and Lexi about their recent loss of a close friend. Also, Gwen opens up about her recent epilepsy diagnosis, which she wanted to put out before this episode, as it caused some hiccups with the recording. 

Our guest this week is Devyn Stone, who talks with us about his non-traditional Radioactive Spider Bite into Kink, which included being in a D/s dynamic in high school. We also discussed authority transfer versus power exchange, becoming a kink educator, and the intersection of kink and gender through the lens of his experience as a trans man who presents traditionally femme. 

Here's a link to the tribute playlist for our friend James that was referenced in this week's episode.


Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you’d probably like episodes 215, 212, and 087.   

Devyn will be directing a track, hosting the cigar social, and teaching three classes for Cirque Du Earth June 4-6, 2021. 

If you want an exclusive special edition compilation book, including all six of Devyn’s ‘Quick Reference’ books, check out his weekend intensive “Devyn’s Stone’s Rainbow of Kink Weekend” June 11-13, 2021. 

If you’d like to find out more about Devyn and his upcoming events, you can visit his website here.

Did you know we host a virtual munch every Friday? You can find more details about that here!

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Be sure to check out this week’s sponsor, Wreck Me Harder. 

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